i recall a while back--on here--i got into a bit of a row about what i said about certain words that dont seem right to me.
"gay marriage" was one of them. it was suggested i was homophobic--far from it. its just the words and phrases that dont seem right.
another example. when one partner in a gay marriage refers to his partner as " my husband ". does that imply he regards himself as the wife in the relationship ?